onnxruntime

Update the MacOS/Linux build scripts that build/install protobuf from source (#16906)

### Description
1. As a follow-up of #16761, this PR allows build ORT on iOS/Android
without the need to explicitly specify a protoc path. #16761 is for
WASM. This one is for iOS/Android
2. Update the MacOS/Linux build scripts that build/install protobuf from
source. Make them be more flexible. Add the support for
RedHatEnterprise(ubi), which will needed for upgrading the base image
from centos:7 to ubi:8.
3. Update tools/ci_build/github/pai/rocm-ci-pipeline-env.Dockerfile :
the docker file's base image has preinstalled protobuf in /usr/local, we
should uninstall them to avoid conflicts.