onnxruntime

[CoreML ML Program] support acclerators selector (#22383)

### Description
For no, CoreML only support run mlmodels on CPU/ALL, However, sometimes
CPU_GPU would be faster a lot.

We support the option to select different hardware to boost performance
in this PR.



### Motivation and Context
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Co-authored-by: Edward Chen <18449977+edgchen1@users.noreply.github.com>