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GH-37705: [Java] Extra input methods for binary writers (#37791)

### Rationale for this change
ByteBuffer and byte[] are commonly used to hold binary data. The current writers require working
with ArrowBuf objects which need to be populated by copying from these types, then copying
into the vector.

### What changes are included in this PR?
Add methods to VarBinary and LargeVarBinary writers to take in common binary parameters - byte[] and ByteBuffer.
The writer now sets these objects on the Vectors directly.

### Are these changes tested?
Yes.

* Closes: #37705

Authored-by: James Duong <duong.james@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>