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GH-44563: [C++] `FunctionOptions::{Serialize,Deserialize}()` return an error without `ARROW_IPC` (#45171)

### Rationale for this change

They use IPC format internally. So we can't do them without `ARROW_IPC`.

### What changes are included in this PR?

Returns `arrow::Status::NotImplemented` without `ARROW_IPC`.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

Yes.
* GitHub Issue: #44563

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>