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GH-34395: [Python] Add support for symbolic linked Arrow related include directories (#34674)

### Rationale for this change

Homebrew uses symbolic link for `$(brew --prefix)/include/arrow`. The current code doesn't work with it because `install(DIRECTORY)` accepts a directory not a symbolic link.

### What changes are included in this PR?

This changes use resolved path instead of symbolic link.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* Closes: #34395

Authored-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>
Signed-off-by: Jacob Wujciak-Jens <jacob@wujciak.de>