pybind11

array_t: make c_style/f_style work for array creation

Currently if you construct an `array_t<T, array::f_style>` with a shape
but not strides you get a C-style array; the only way to get F-style
strides was to calculate the strides manually.  This commit fixes that
by adding logic to use f_style strides when the flag is set.

This also simplifies the existing c_style stride logic.