OpenBLAS

Switch blas_server to use acq/rel semantics

Heavy-weight locking isn't required to pass the work queue
pointer between threads and simple atomic acquire/release
semantics can be used instead. This is especially important as
pthread_mutex_lock() isn't fair.

We've observed substantial variation in runtime because of the
the unfairness of these locks which complety goes away with
this implementation.

The locks themselves are left to provide a portable way for
idling threads to sleep/wakeup after many unsuccessful iterations
waiting.