OpenBLAS

driver: more reasonable thread wait timeout on Windows.

It used to be 5ms, which might not be long enough in some cases for the
thread to exit well, but then when set to 5000 (5s), it would slow down
any program depending on OpenBlas.

Let's just set it to 50ms, which is at least 10 times longer than
originally, but still reasonable in case of failed thread termination.