onnxruntime

Upgrade the Windows SDK version that is used in WindowsAI Nuget Packaging pipeline (#19786)

### Description
1. Upgrade the version from 10.0.19041.0 to 10.0.22621.0. The old one
misses some macros that are needed by PyTorch's CPUINFO
2. Also update cmake.


### Motivation and Context
In PR #19655 I added CPUINFO to all Windows builds, but forgot to test
this pipeline.