onnxruntime

[CoreML] more performace flag (#22975)

### Description
refactor unsquzee's implementation
add more flags to boost peformance.
add profile flag


### Motivation and Context
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Co-authored-by: jicwen <jicwen@YiMacBook-Pro.local>
Co-authored-by: wejoncy <wejoncy@.com>
Co-authored-by: Scott McKay <skottmckay@gmail.com>