onnxruntime

Don't reduce warning level for CUDA build on Windows (#19663)

### Description
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Address warnings so all the ORT projects build with /W4 on Windows.

Mainly 
- unused parameters
- variables shadowing other ones

### Motivation and Context
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#19588 started on this.