onnxruntime

Update labeling bot (#21548)

Current labeling bot over-applies many of the labels (e.g., ep:CUDA and
platform:windows) and is missing some of the APIs + EPs

Working on migrating this workflow to GitHub policies but would like to
use this fix in the meantime to avoid causing any issues w/ ORT 1.19

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