onnxruntime

Create dedicated build for training api (#14136)

### Description
Enable creating dedicated build for on device training. With this PR we
can build a lean binary for on device training using flag
--enable_training_apis. This binary includes only the essentials like
training ops, optimizers etc and NOT features like Aten fallback,
strided tensors, gradient builders etc . This binary also removes all
the deprecated components like training::TrainingSession and OrtTrainer
etc

### Motivation and Context
This enables our partners to create a lean binary for on device
training.