onnxruntime

[VitisAI] Cache node subgraph when necessary (#22073)

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[VitisAI] Cache node subgraph when necessary

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Co-authored-by: Zhenze Wang <zhenzew@xilinx.com>
Co-authored-by: zhenzew <zhenzew@amd.com>