onnxruntime

Update build option for training in java to enable_training_api (#15638)

### Description
Updating the build option for enabling training in java builds from
ENABLE_TRAINING -> ENABLE_TRAINING_APIS.
In the native codebase ENABLE_TRAINING is used for enabling full
training and ENABLE_TRAINING_APIS is used for creating the lte builds
with training apis. Making the change to sync the naming convention
across all the language bindings.

It was a bit confusing to see ENABLE_TRAINING when debugging the android
build failures for training. Making this change just to improve
readability of logs during debugging.

### Motivation and Context
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