onnxruntime

Add more F16 kernels of XNNPack (#22381)

### Description
1. Add Gemm, MatMul, Softmax, AveragePool and  Resize F16 kernels

This PR has included all changes in #22378


[AB#51066](https://aiinfra.visualstudio.com/6a833879-cd9b-44a4-a9de-adc2d818f13c/_workitems/edit/51066)

[AB#51026](https://aiinfra.visualstudio.com/6a833879-cd9b-44a4-a9de-adc2d818f13c/_workitems/edit/51026)

2. Matrix B must be const and martrix A and B dim_size shoule NOT bigger
than 2 in XNNPack, so I added 2 tests in matmul_test.cc to make sure
it's really tested. (that is, compute() must be called.)
### Motivation and Context