onnxruntime

Added DML and CUDA provider support in onnxruntime-node (#16050)

### Description
I've added changes to support CUDA and DML (only on Windows, on other
platforms it will throw an error)



### Motivation and Context
It fixes this feature request
https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/14127 which is tracked
here https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/14529

I was working on StableDiffusion implementation for node.js and it is
very slow on CPU, so GPU support is essential.

Here is a working demo with a patched and precompiled version
https://github.com/dakenf/stable-diffusion-nodejs

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