onnxruntime

Cleanup C# bindings to add EP (#8810)

Fix C# add EP bindings.
Add stubs to ORT so that if EP is not included in the build we return a graceful error message.
Move declaration of stubs into C API and out for EP so they're in one place and are easier to use (no extra header required in the C/C++ world and consistent with the CUDA EP setup).
Fix inconsistency in ROCM EP.
Cleanup a few other things.