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[TensorRT EP] TensorRT 10 support (#20167)

This PR has the change of supporting INT64 tensor type for TRT 10.
This PR is also **compatible with TRT 8.6 and TRT 10** meaning user can
build ORT TRT against TRT 8.6 or TRT 10.

Due to the timeline for TRT 10 GA and ORT 1.18 release is very tight (We
don't have enough time to get our CIs installed with TRT 10 GA libraries
and run the build/tests), as well as Nvidia new Triton release (The
timeline is also very close to the timeline of TRT 10 GA) wants to
integrate TRT EP with TRT 10.

Therefore, our approach is to make this PR into ORT 1.18 first, so
everything is fully tested with TRT 8.6 CIs, and user can still manually
build ORT 1.18 against TRT 10 like the Triton case.

As for testing TRT 10, once TRT 10 GA is released, we will have another
branch which includes change at this PR as well as whatever changes
needed and update our CIs with TRT 10.