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[VitisAI] fix throw on dfs (#23678)

### Description
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Add customized version for reverse dfs which can exit early if the graph
is altered.


### Motivation and Context
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This is requested by MSFT. We used to use throw exception to exit
reverse dfs and this is not preferred by MSFT.

Co-authored-by: Yueqing Zhang <yueqingz@amd.com>