onnxruntime

Add compilation cache in react native CI (#15329)

### Description
1. Replacing jobs with stages for better debugging and maintainance
2. Added compilation cache to accelerate the workflow.
3. Splited building protobuf and major code as 2 tasks



### Motivation and Context
Reduced compilation time about one hour.
test run:

https://dev.azure.com/onnxruntime/onnxruntime/_build/results?buildId=943695&view=logs&j=de302ec2-2305-57e0-e8c6-cd89c569f2a3&t=8b360243-7783-51da-8079-2304089d3d1d