onnxruntime

[CUDA] Update GroupNorm and Add SkipGroupNorm (#18091)

* Add a new operator SkipGroupNorm to support skip and bias inputs.
* Update GroupNorm kernel to support number of channels used in SD XLrefiner.
* Add epsilon in kernel
* Add parity and performance test script
* Remove many limitations including max batch size, max number of groups, c % cPerBlock ==0 etc.

### Motivation and Context

Update GroupNorm to support SD XL Refiner and beyond.