onnxruntime

Fix AMD builds and enable testing NHWC CUDA ops in one GPU CI (#17972)

### Description
This PR:

(1) Fixes AMD builds after #17200 broke them (Need to remember to run
AMD builds while trying to merge external CUDA PRs next time)

(2) Turn on the NHWC CUDA feature in the Linux GPU CI. The extra time
spent in building a few more files and running a few more tests will not
be much.

Test Linux GPU CI run :
https://dev.azure.com/onnxruntime/onnxruntime/_build/results?buildId=1170770

### Motivation and Context
Keep the NHWC CUDA ops tested
(https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/pull/17200) and guard against
regressions