onnxruntime

Implement DML copy for Lora Adapters (#22396)

### Description
Request and create DML EP and its data transfer.
Use to copy on device.

The PR includes changes to fix issues in DML provider.

### Motivation and Context
This enables Lora users to run it with DML which is important for GenAI.

Co-authored-by: @PatriceVignola

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Co-authored-by: Patrice Vignola <vignola.patrice@gmail.com>