onnxruntime

Build DML in Windows GPU CI pipeline (#22869)

### Description
Add a new stage to build cuda and dml in Windows GPU CI pipeline (PR
checks) to prevent regressions introduced by new cuda tests.
Update all tests in cuda/testcases name prefix to CudaEp for skipping
them easily

### Motivation and Context
1. CudaNhwcEP is added by default when using cuda ep
2. if onnxruntime_ENABLE_CUDA_EP_INTERNAL_TES is enable, the tests in
tests/provider/cuda/testcases is added too.

### To do
add enable_pybind in the new stage.
Now, --enable_pybind will trigger some python test, like
onnxruntime_test_python.py.
It uses the API of get_avaible_providers() .
More discussions are needed to decide how to make it works