onnxruntime

Fix build error on Windows if Python debug libraries are installed (#14308)

### Description
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If a user installs the debug libraries from Python on Windows the ORT
python project file attempts to use the debug python lib, which
conflicts with a pragma in pyconfig.h that wants the release lib (due to
pybind11 undefining _DEBUG).

Explicitly use the release lib instead of Python::Module so the build
doesn't break.

### Motivation and Context
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Fix obtuse build break.