onnxruntime

Introduce reused_buffer_index_per_stream in allocation planner which will be reset after computing the reuse buffer for each stream (#19515)

### Description
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Introduce reused_buffer_index_per_stream in allocation planner which
will be reset after computing the reuse buffer for each stream. So if a
NodeArg is an input of several Ops across different streams and reuses
other NodeArg, the reused NodeArg won't be involved when computing the
second stream's reuse plan.


### Motivation and Context
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This is to fix https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/19480,
which is a crash for the scenario mentioned above.

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Co-authored-by: Lei Cao <leca@microsoft.com>