onnxruntime

Update xnnpack, cpuinfo and pthreadpool (#23362)

### Description
Update xnnpack to remove the dependency on psimd and fp16 libraries.
However, coremltool still depends on them, which will be addressed
later.

Also, update CPUINFO because the latest xnnpack requires CPUINFO's avx10
support.

### Motivation and Context
The fewer dependencies the better.