onnxruntime

Refactor training build options (#13964)

### Description
1. Renames all references of on device training to training apis. This
is to keep the naming general. Nothing really prevents us from using the
same apis on servers\non-edge devices.
2. Update ENABLE_TRAINING option: With this PR when this option is
enabled, training apis and torch interop is also enabled.
3. Refactoring for onnxruntime_ENABLE_TRAINING_TORCH_INTEROP option: 
   -  Removed user facing option
- Setting onnxruntime_ENABLE_TRAINING_TORCH_INTEROP to ON when
onnxruntime_ENABLE_TRAINING is ON as we always build with torch interop.

Once this PR is merged when --enable_training is selected we will do a
"FULL Build" for training (with all the training entry points and
features).
Training entry points include:
1. ORTModule
2. Training APIs

Features include:
1. ATen Fallback
2. All Training OPs includes communication and collectives
3. Strided Tensor Support
4. Python Op (torch interop)
5. ONNXBlock (Front end tools for training artifacts prep when using
trianing apis)

### Motivation and Context
Intention is to simply the options for building training enabled builds.
This is part of the larger work item to create dedicated build for
learning on the edge scenarios with just training apis enabled.