onnxruntime

Define recomputable op list with domain/opset (#19722)

### Define recomputable op list with domain/opset

Originally, we just check the OpType and decide whether it is
recomputable.

In this PR, few improvements are made:
1. [Op type search] Domain + OpType are used to check whether the op is
supported to recompute.
2. [Opset search] Then, node.SinceVersion() will be searched in the
supported opsets.
3. During subgraph detection, If the node in that this opset is
supported, get the ignorable input indices, which means we don't
consider in the bottom-up search. This would save time for the subgraph
detection.


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