onnxruntime

Update python version metadata (remove 3.7, 3.8, 3.9; add 3.13). (#23067)

### Description

* Update python version metadata to be in sync with latest python
packages (onnxruntime, onnxruntime-gpu and onnxruntime-qnn).
* Update black format target-version to 3.10, and use lintrunner to
format all files.
* Update the lintrunner installation command line to be consistent.
* Include `requirements-lintrunner.txt` in `requirements-dev.txt` to
avoid duplicated settings.

### Motivation and Context

https://github.com/microsoft/onnxruntime/issues/22993

Python support by numpy:
https://numpy.org/neps/nep-0029-deprecation_policy.html#drop-schedule
```
On Apr 05, 2024 drop support for Python 3.9
On Apr 04, 2025 drop support for Python 3.10
```