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[DML EP] Add I/O binding and `If` operator (#16859)

Being able to leverage I/O binding for DML and registering `If` for the
DML EP allows us to avoid copying the past/present key/values back and
forth between the CPU and the GPU after every token.

This gives us a 25% performance increase for Dolly V2 with 128 tokens on
an RTX 4090.