onnxruntime

Refine logging for execution plan print (#19777)

### Refine logging for execution plan print

Printing NodeIndex only is not enough for us to debug the execution
order.

keep original behaviour for ORT_MINIMAL_BUILD build in case of any CPU
memory concerns.



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