onnxruntime

[VitisAI]set-data_loaction-as-default-when-load-external-data (#19712)

### Description
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set-data_loaction-as-default-when-load-external-data
fix vitis ai ep can not get CutomOps by session_option register

### Motivation and Context
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VitisAI bug daily fixes
when use pass: fuse_qdq_GEMM or fuse_qdq_MATMUL, get error like : Error
Data of TensorProto ( tensor name: xxx) is stored externally and should
not have data field.raw_data

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Co-authored-by: Zhenze Wang <zhenzew@xilinx.com>