onnxruntime

FP16 optimizer automatically detect DeepSpeed compatibility (#18084)

### FP16 optimizer automatically detect DeepSpeed compatibility

Optimum/Transformers are using accelerate lib to prepare models, so our
FP16 optimizer wrapper does not work for long time. Because the
namespace is `accelerate.utils.deepspeed.DeepSpeedOptimizerWrapper`,
which underlying is still calling into DeepSpeed stage1and2 optimizer.

This PR includes following changes:
1. Add `accelerate.utils.deepspeed.DeepSpeedOptimizerWrapper` in the
modifier registry, plus a check on its contained `optimizer` property
MUST be DeepSpeed stage 1 and 2 optimizer. (let's cover Stage 3
optimizer later)
2. For DeepSpeed version > 0.9.1, we will store the source code in a
version list. As long as the related function in DeepSpeed remains
unchanged during its new release, we won't need manually upgrade the
version check any more. If some day, the source code did not match, a
warning will be raised to users, to add a new version of source code in
the list.

With the above change, we will have our FP16 Optimizer working again in
Optimum.


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