onnxruntime

Update to mobile model usability checker (#19843)

### Description
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- Add check for CoreML MLProgram supported ops
- Only check usability with ORT Mobile package if requested
- this package will be deprecated so info is a) of minimal value and b)
can be confusing.
- Output more things at INFO level
- a lot of meaningful info was only output at DEBUG level. The default
INFO level is more useful
  - dump full partition info at DEBUG level
- Check subgraphs fully
  - CoreML can handle a subgraph
- TBD if we want to add support for adding a subgraph to the parent
graph for Loop and If nodes
    - most likely will be required for simple If nodes to be performant
- Check 5D CoreML limitation

### Motivation and Context
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- If it fixes an open issue, please link to the issue here. -->
Improve helper tools

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Co-authored-by: Edward Chen <18449977+edgchen1@users.noreply.github.com>