onnxruntime

create memory descriptors based on the tensor dimensions (#15848)

Arm Compute Library(ACL)backend requires explicit memory format tag
iniatilization to decide wether the tensor can be computed with the ACL
kernels. Hence, the src, weights and dst memroy descriptor format is set
based on the tensor dimensions instead of using the format::any tag.

### Description
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Arm Compute Library(ACL)backend requires explicit memory format tag
iniatilization to decide wether the tensor can be computed with the ACL
kernels. Hence, the src, weights and dst memroy descriptor format is set
based on the tensor dimensions instead of using the format::any tag.


### Motivation and Context
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The change enables ACL kernels for DNNL matmul ops on aarch64 platform.