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AVRO-3993: [java] Add better exception msgs when writing invalid enum symnbol (#2945)

* Added better exception messages when writing invalid enum symnbol.

* Remove unnecessary import.

* revert local pom changes that werent supposed to go

* improved the comment

* fixed some characters per the validation

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Co-authored-by: Gray Watson <gwatson@abinitio.com>