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GH-28866: [Java] Java Dataset API ScanOptions expansion (#41646)



### Rationale for this change

### What changes are included in this PR?

Support to add ArrowSchema to specify C++ CsvFragmentScanOptions.convert_options.column_types
And use Map to set the config, serialize in java and deserialize in C++ for CsvFragmentScanOptions

### Are these changes tested?
new added UT.

### Are there any user-facing changes?
No.

* GitHub Issue: #28866

Authored-by: Chengcheng Jin <chengcheng.jin@intel.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>