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GH-38576: [Java] Change JDBC driver to optionally preserve cookies and auth tokens when getting streams (#38580)

### Rationale for this change
This change restores the original behavior of transmitting existing cookies and auth tokens when getting separate
streams returned by getFlightInfo after adding support for multiple endpoints.

These properties are now optional though.

### What changes are included in this PR?
- Change the JDBC driver to add new properties "retainCookies" and "retainAuth"
- These properties allow internally spawned connections for getting streams to use the cookies and bearer tokens from the original connection.
- Add tests for validating defaults from ArrowFlightSqlClient.Builder

### Are these changes tested?
Unit tests have been added.

### Are there any user-facing changes?
Yes. There are now properties and they are documented.
* Closes: #38576

Authored-by: James Duong <james.duong@improving.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>