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GH-45295: [Python][CI] Make download_tzdata_on_windows more robust and use tzdata package for tzinfo database on Windows for ORC (#45425)

### Rationale for this change

We have two Windows issues and this PR is addressing both:

1. PyArrow's `download_tzdata_on_windows` can fail due to TLS issues in certain CI environments.
2. The Python wheel test infrastructure needs a tzinfo database for ORC and the automation fetching that started failing because the URL was made invalid upstream.

These two issues are being solved in one PR simply because they appeared together during the 19.0.1 release process but they're separate.

### What changes are included in this PR?

1. Makes `download_tzdata_on_windows` more robust to TLS errors by attempting to use `requests` if it's available and falling back to urllib otherwise.
2. Switches our Windows wheel test infrastructure to grab a tzinfo database from the tzdata package on PyPi instead of from a mirror URL. This should be much more stable for us over time.

### Are these changes tested?

Yes.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No.
* GitHub Issue: #45295

Lead-authored-by: Bryce Mecum <petridish@gmail.com>
Co-authored-by: Joris Van den Bossche <jorisvandenbossche@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Bryce Mecum <petridish@gmail.com>