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ARROW-16870: [C++] Fix link issues with ldd and clang for flight examples (#14077)

It seems `ldd` doesn't like this flag `--no-as-needed`, so the arrow flight example cannot build on macOS with clang. This minor PR tries to fix that.
I was able to build the arrow flight example and run without issues:
`./flight-grpc-example -port 8086`
Notes:
```bash
clang++ --version
Apple clang version 14.0.0 (clang-1400.0.29.102)
```

Authored-by: Percy Camilo Triveño Aucahuasi <percy.camilo.ta@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>