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GH-40829: [Java] Adding Spotless to Memory modules (#42056)

### Rationale for this change

Applying Java code style and formatting options to Memory modules.
- [x] memory-core
- [x] memory-netty
- [x] memory-netty-buffer-patch
- [x] memory-unsafe

### What changes are included in this PR?

Java code formatting via spotless plugin has been enabled.

Checkstyle configuration has been changed to remove the 120 line character limit as g-j-f does not wrap long strings

### Are these changes tested?

Yes, but doesn't involve test cases, the plugin itself corrects.

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No

* GitHub Issue: #40829

Authored-by: Laurent Goujon <laurent@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>