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ARROW-17991: [Python] [C++] Adding support for IpcWriteOptions to the dataset ipc file writer (#14414)

This PR adds the option to pass a populated `IpcWriteOptions` object along with the dataset writer. This allows the user to specify a compression type when writing out .arrow files. 
Note that this makes the dataset ipc writer support more configuration options than the normal ipc writer, so we'll probably follow up on this and make them more consistent again.

Authored-by: Joost Hoozemans <joosthooz@msn.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>