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GH-20379: [Java] Dataset Failed to update reservation while freeing bytes (#40101)

### Rationale for this change
Better controls JNI Thread management in java dataset module to fix #20379 
Re-use the same code found in the java arrow-c-data module : https://github.com/apache/arrow/blob/main/java/c/src/main/cpp/jni_wrapper.cc#L107

May JNIEnvGuard class code can be put in a common place for both libraries ...

### What changes are included in this PR?
N/A

### Are these changes tested?
These changes has been tested with :  https://gist.github.com/fb64/71880cde297bc5234b02b68b785670fd 
on Linux X86_64 architecture

### Are there any user-facing changes?
N/A

* Closes: #20379

Authored-by: Florian Bernard <florian.bernard@openairlines.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>