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ARROW-13151: [C++][Parquet] Propagate schema changes from selection all the way up the stack

Previously, structs would only work for a single level, and other nested types did not do this at all.  This PR propagates types through lists, large_lists, fixed_sized_lists and multiple nesting of structs.  Maps had some special handling:
1.  If only a partial key is selected it gets converted to list<struct>
2. If only a partial value is selected it maintains the map type.
3. The old behavior of changing to list<struct> is maintained when the entire key or value are removed (but test coverage was added for this)

The example given in the JIRA now works:
```
>>> data = {"root": [[\{"addr": {"this": 3, "that": 3}}]]}
 >>> table = pa.Table.from_pydict(data)
 >>> pq.write_table(table, "/tmp/table.parquet")
 >>> file = pq.ParquetFile("/tmp/table.parquet")
 >>> array = file.read(["root.list.item.addr.that"])
 >>> array
 pyarrow.Table
 root: list<item: struct<addr: struct<that: int64>>>
 child 0, item: struct<addr: struct<that: int64>>
 child 0, addr: struct<that: int64>
 child 0, that: int64
----
root: [[ – is_valid: all not null
 – child 0 type: struct<that: int64>
 – is_valid: all not null
 – child 0 type: int64
 [
 3
 ]]]
```

Closes #11351 from emkornfield/fix_parquet_type_filter

Lead-authored-by: Micah Kornfield <micahk@google.com>
Co-authored-by: emkornfield <emkornfield@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Micah Kornfield <emkornfield@gmail.com>