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MINOR: [Swift] cleanup some go and C++ artifacts (#41878)

### Rationale for this change

Follow up changes requested in the #41342

### What changes are included in this PR?

Update includes header file and go dependencies changes related to the C Data interface changes.

Authored-by: Alva Bandy <abandy@live.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>