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GH-38879: [C++][Gandiva] Fix Gandiva to_date function's validation for supress errors parameter (#38987)

### Rationale for this change
* This PR fixes the `to_date_utf8_utf8_int32` gandiva function to avoid crash for invalid input

### What changes are included in this PR?
* A bug fix for to_date_utf8_utf8_int32 parameter validation

### Are these changes tested?
Yes, new tests are added to verify non literal input won't crash the to_date_utf8_utf8_int32 function

### Are there any user-facing changes?
No
* Closes: #38879

Authored-by: Yue Ni <niyue.com@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Sutou Kouhei <kou@clear-code.com>