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GH-41566: [CI][Packaging] macOS wheel for Catalina fails to build on macOS arm64 (#41567)

### Rationale for this change

Wheels for macOS catalina are failing

### What changes are included in this PR?

Use macos-13 instead of (latest) ARM

### Are these changes tested?

Yes, via archery

### Are there any user-facing changes?

No
* GitHub Issue: #41566

Authored-by: Raúl Cumplido <raulcumplido@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Raúl Cumplido <raulcumplido@gmail.com>