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ARROW-17011: [C++][Flight] Remove the need for serialization_internal.h inside python/flight.cc (#13546)

The changes made to flight and python flight in https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/13311 are moved into this separate PR. The reason for separation is for the changes to be merged before the next release and also to make https://github.com/apache/arrow/pull/13311 less complex.

The changes are same as in the PR mentioned. I hope that the changes in `cpp/src/arrow/python/flight.cc` can serve as a test.

cc @lidavidm @jorisvandenbossche 

Authored-by: Alenka Frim <frim.alenka@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: David Li <li.davidm96@gmail.com>